Answer: "Negative" environmental factors are the most challenging issues to overcome in Feng Shui. More than 95% of the time, it's near impossible to change or make the environment go away; however, you can do things to help mitigate its effects. From your description, I believe the problems you are experiencing as a family are related to both your inner and outer environments.
I wish I could give you a "quick fix" remedy, but I cannot without knowing more about the occupants, the shape of the lot, the floor plan, how the house sits on the lot, the location of the lot within the subdivision or neighborhood along with interior and exterior photos. An accurate compass degree reading is also useful, to determine the "unseen" energy that may be affecting your health and well being as well.
When an individual or family experiences "multiple" issues i.e..emotional, mental, physical and/or financial challenges at the same time, it's wise to consult with a Feng Shui professional on site or by phone. If this is not financially feasible, then you will want to learn how to remedy the above on your own by reading books from the library or taking a thorough course study of Feng Shui that includes remedies and enhancement for lots, land, floor plans and locations, as well as enhancements for individuals.
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